You may think that I was hard on old Billy Bob, however I have done workshops that converted the most abusive into model sport parents. The majority of parents are decent, loving and effective role models. I'm also a parent and had profound experiences of joy when my son took his first steps, and pick up my hockey stick. However, I am also faced with the pressures of protecting my family, providing opportunities for success in a high achieving society. To help us as parents, we all need a helpful soccer education and role models for parenting. I sat in the stands with a national team coach who was watching his seven year old son play a game. As we watched, all the players gravitated like a magnet to the ball. We chuckled and enjoyed the moment. The other parents recognized him as a former pro and national team coach. Amazingly they began to urge and plead with him to fix the players, that "they are playing wrong". They screamed, "Go on the field and do something"! The wise parent sat back, "That is what they have to figure out".
Dan Freigang Ph.D. is a sport scientist working with the U.S.S.F. in Sport Psychology. Dano travels the country doing clinics and workshops with clubs and individuals. Dano was an internationally ranked athlete and national team coach and he presents his skills as a unique blend of scientist and coach. He is currently in private practice and invites your comments and inquiries.
Caldan@Earthlink.net (801) 392-4762.
