Leading the way was the Ohio North's Soccer Association, Karl Pavlovich and Al Soper the brainchild of Silent Sunday. They implemented a program where parents and coaches were not allowed to cheer, or jeer. The kids loved it and commented that they could think clearly for themselves. Parents had some initial difficulties because they thought it their obligation to be vocal. It is now a regular event that parents meet with creative anticipation. Silent Sunday has been significant and has prompted some dramatic changes in the way we teach coaches and parents.
Coaching education around the country has followed Silent Sunday lead. Tom Turner developed an ethics chapter in his small sided games teaching as a compendium to parents and coaches. Many coaching programs are trying to educate parents in developmental issues, rules of the game, strategy and communication skills. This is a constant process according to Roby Stahl coaching director from Ohio South. Stall advocates parent-coach meetings to bring parents into the game and communicate the developmental activities for the kids. Coaches are required to identify seasonal goals as well as teaching the basic rules and etiquette of the game. The result has been positive according to Stahl. We still need more accountability from both coaches and parents.
Other professional educators have begun to address this issue. The Positive Coaching Alliance from Stanford University, provides state of the art workshops for coaches and parents. As well, many communities are requiring parents to attend and pass mandatory parental training. Occasionally there are some teeth added to these educational formats. Abusive parents are subject to a variety of restrictions if they cross the line at youth games. Leagues have adopted red cards for parents, the fifty cent fine, removal, and stopping games as measures, that attempt to curb poor behavior.
Dan Freigang Ph.D. is a sport scientist working with the U.S.S.F. in Sport Psychology. Dano travels the country doing clinics and workshops with clubs and individuals. Dano was an internationally ranked athlete and national team coach and he presents his skills as a unique blend of scientist and coach. He is currently in private practice and invites your comments and inquiries.
Caldan@Earthlink.net (801) 392-4762.
